This is just the story of myself and my family.

Monday, May 30, 2011


I have to write the action research as required. So all my writings was done while traveling sitting in the car and it was really started in Pantai Medical Hospital Ipoh while visiting my sick father-in-law. I wrote a few pages then. To really sit down to do the writing is just impossible. Somehow then you think about the ipad. May be it is great to have one. You can straight away writing then.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Missing those days

How I am missing those days when we used to travel from a mere four hundred km to a thousand to and fro per one trip in one weekend. Those weekends we travelled from Hulu Selangor to Manjung for two years when Ita was in form 4 and 5 (2006 and 2007). Then also in mid 2006 until mid 2007 we went to KMPP in Bernam to visit Ucin. That was more than 300 km one way from Hulu Selangor. Worst still (for a span of one year) we moved nearly 1K when Ita was in KMK in Changloon because we continued to go to Kangar to visit my father when he was still alive. Those were really the days. I really missed the driving with him. Someting we enjoyed doing together.

Saturday, May 21, 2011


I wonder now I have to drive about twenty km but it takes almost one hour. My world is full of traffic jams. Those days I had to drive 42 then it used my one hour, now it is still the same one hour. No I must just accept my luck.

Do I have the time then? It is just the same. Fine.

Saturday, May 14, 2011

IPOH - His father dies

Last week on Tuesday, we went to Ipoh to visit his sick father in Pantai Medical Centre, ICU. We left KL at about 5.00 pm with my City. Ita was following us. After spending some time in the ward we had a rest for the night in Tambun, abang's home. We came home on Wednesday afternoon around 6.00 pm. Then there was a call telling that we should go back to Ipoh again to transfer his sick father to GH Ipoh.

But since he was too tired, the two of us went back to Ipoh with his crv then on Thursday morning. Actually what I noticed was that his father did'nt even open his lids all those while, but they said his father did for three times without uttering a word. After settling his father, still in ICU GH Ipoh after waiting for some time, we decided to go home that very Thurday late afternoon. But when we were about Behrang his sister called telling his father conditioned was worsened. So we went back to Ipoh again that early Thursday night. After spending some moment there in the 7A ward, his father passed away at about 10.05 pm.

The body was brought to Tambun by about late night. Then by Friday morning almost everybody was in Tambun to pay their last respect. By about 12.30 the body was prayed and later taken to Manong for burial. All my kid were there. His staff were also present. Thankyou everybdoy.

Thursday, May 12, 2011


I was busy these last four weeks attending courses compulsory for me. From 11 April till 15 April was Construction of KPI in IAB Genting. Then the next week, 20 till 22nd April in Permaisuri Resort Port Dickson, a course for New Principal in Wilayah Persekutuan. Then again another three days in IAB Genting, a course in Organizing Problem Solving from 26 till 28 April. And lastly a course on Action Research held on 4th and 5th May in Kuala Lumpur International Hotel.

The courses were held four weeks in a row and made me left the school for long. And last weekend, Saturday and Sunday - 7 th and 8 th May we went to Kuala Terengganu to see his girls in the hockey tournament. On the 10 th late afternoon, we went to Ipoh to visit his sick father in Pantai Hospital. We were home on the 11 th late afternoon. I suppose at the wee hour today we are going again to Ipoh to see his father. He is unconscious right now for more than two days and is supported by the machine for survival. Bless him.